Two increasingly recognized secular holidays—Festivus and HumanLight—were observed across the United States, drawing attention from communities interested in alternative, inclusive ways of marking the winter season. While distinct in tone and origin, both celebrations offered a moment for reflection, community engagement, and cultural expression outside the boundaries of religious or commercial traditions.
Festivus, originally conceived as a family ritual in the 1960s by author Daniel O’Keefe, entered the public consciousness in 1997 thanks to a memorable episode of the television sitcom Seinfeld. What began as a fictional holiday has since evolved into a real-life phenomenon, particularly among fans of the show and those seeking humor and irony amid the often-hectic holiday season. The hallmark traditions of Festivus include the display of a plain aluminum pole—chosen as a symbol of anti-commercialism—as well as the now-famous “airing of grievances,” in which participants comically share how others have disappointed them during the past year. This is followed by the “feats of strength,” a good-natured competition that typically rounds out the evening with laughter and camaraderie.
While Festivus is generally approached with a satirical spirit, it has come to serve a meaningful purpose for many. It provides a lighthearted and inclusive opportunity for friends, families, and even workplace teams to come together without the expectations or obligations that accompany more traditional holidays. Over time, the observance has become a symbol of resistance against holiday stress and a reminder that celebration can take many forms—even those rooted in parody.
In contrast, HumanLight offers a more introspective, values-based celebration for secular humanists and others who identify with ethical humanist principles. First established in 2001 by the New Jersey Humanist Network, HumanLight centers on ideals such as reason, compassion, hope, and community. Its observance on December 23 is intended to coincide with the holiday season without overlapping religious festivities, providing a distinct day for reflection and connection.
HumanLight celebrations vary in form but often include symbolic candle lighting, community meals, discussions on ethics and social progress, and charitable activities. Unlike Festivus, which leans heavily into comedy and pop culture, HumanLight focuses on human-centered values and shared aspirations for a better world. Participants use the occasion to acknowledge the importance of mutual respect, science-based understanding, and the potential of human agency to create positive change.
Throughout the country, 2025’s observances saw renewed interest as more individuals and families looked for alternative ways to mark the season. In cities like Philadelphia, San Diego, and Minneapolis, local humanist organizations hosted events ranging from discussion groups to service projects. Meanwhile, social media platforms were filled with images of aluminum poles and posts jokingly sharing grievances, indicating that Festivus remains a favorite among those embracing humor as a form of connection.
The appeal of both holidays reflects a broader cultural shift. As the United States continues to diversify in belief systems and cultural practices, many are choosing to celebrate year-end traditions in ways that align with their personal values. Festivus and HumanLight, though vastly different in tone and format, each offer inclusive platforms for community and celebration.
These observances also raise important questions about what it means to celebrate in a modern, pluralistic society. With growing interest in mindfulness, ethics, and mental well-being during the holidays, secular traditions like HumanLight offer meaningful alternatives to those who may feel disconnected from religious customs. Similarly, Festivus taps into a need for levity and connection, especially at a time when humor can serve as a bridge between people from different backgrounds.
As December 23 becomes more widely associated with these two secular observances, it is increasingly clear that America’s cultural landscape continues to expand in ways that embrace diversity, creativity, and individuality. Whether through laughter and satire or reflection and humanist ideals, Festivus and HumanLight remind us that the spirit of the season can be found in many different forms—and that celebration, at its core, is about bringing people together in meaningful ways.
